When you have already gone thru a number of miscarriages, and just got diagnosed with lupus, you get more words of caution than congratulations. I just got an earful from my doctor about the risks of pregnancy on my kidneys and how I should evaluate my options.
Next week, I’m about to see more doctors — the same ones who have repeatedly warned me against getting pregnant.
I know I’m not allowed to be happy. But I secretly am.